(Think of behavior such as trash talking their ex.)
They are also healthy relationship habits that someone has, such as good communication skills.
So, what are some green flags to look for?
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People across the internet are sharing their opinions.
A Reddit thread asking forinstant green flagsgot a lot of responses.
They arent earth-shattering, but they’re definitely things you dont find in everyone you meet.
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Consistency was one green flag.
Not having to wonder if he likes you or not,said one Redditor.
Asking questions about the stuff that I enjoy even if he doesnt inherently understand.
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My now husband did this when we started dating and does it to this day.
Of course, the big things are important.
But its also the little, sometimes silly things, that make a lasting impact.
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It couldnt have cost more than $5, but him just remembering that detail meant so much.
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How he treats other people, especially other women in his life.
It couldnt have cost more than $5, but him just remembering that detail meant so much.
Unfortunately it didnt work out, but he was a pretty great guy.
Not having to wonder if he likes you or not.
It feels natural and you dont have to wait 1000 years to reply to text.
F*** that.
If you dont feel that way, then dont bother.
Its a waste of energy and time.
Youll just be disappointed.
hippycutie
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Asking questions about the stuff that I enjoy even if he doesnt inherently understand.
My now husband did this when we started dating and does it to this day.
Hell let me ramble about chemistry or other things he doesnt quite get just to see me smile.
Diene4fun
Making an effort to understand your interest, or a situation you are discussing.
Diene4fun
Listening to no from the beginning, even in the small things.
Additionally, being able to talk about an issue and be respectful, considerate, and not dismissive.
lexiconkiller
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Fabulous communication and following through with everything he says.
Not calling all his exs crazy, admitting that he was the problem.
These were some of the many green flags I saw when I met my now husband.
evi995
Being kind to animals.
I may hate the bugs but anyone who is gentle, even to insects, is someone I trust.
The_Rural_Banshee
He made (makes!)
me feel comfortable in myself, just being.
SaxAndViolince
